Honor

Rise in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the LORD.
Leviticus 19:32

Ebb and Flow

I found this quote by Anne Morrow Lindbergh in "A Gift from the Sea." It is both a profound observation and a sad commentary on the nature of human relationships:

When you love someone, you do not love them all the time. in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet, this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of time and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible in life, as in love, is in growth, in fluidity in freedom. The only real security is not owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now. For relationships, too must be like islands. One must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits islands surrounded and interrupted by the sea, continuously visited and abandoned by the tides. Once must accept the serenity of the winged life, of ebb and flow, of intermittency.

Two initial thoughts:

1) Understanding the natural ebb and flow of human relationships can help us liberate our friends and family from our unrealistic expectations that so often lead to complete relationship burn-out. Even if we wanted to love with absolute permanency, we could not. Work, moves, marriage, time, death--all these factors and more cause irrevocable changes.

2) Thanks to God that He does not love us like we love each other Instead of ebb and flow from God, we get immeasurably wide, long, high, and deep love that surpasses all knowledge.

Solzhenitsyn Speech Review

A World Split Apart: Address at Harvard Class Day, Afternoon Exercises, Thursday, June 8, 1978
By Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

If humanism were right in declaring that man is born to be happy, he would not be born to die. Since his body is doomed to die, his task on earth must be of a more spiritual nature.

This speech is Solzhenitsyn’s famous Harvard address that was met with hostility and heckling boos from his audience. They didn’t appreciate Americanism being so vehemently condemned, especially by a foreigner. I think Solzhenitsyn brings a wise perspective, though, and we should at least listen to his thoughts with open minds and hearts.

Saying, “Truth is seldom pleasant; it is almost invariably bitter,” Solzhenitsyn makes the American ego the target of scathing rebuke in this speech. His basic premise is that, although Socialism is evil (“Socialism of any type and shade leads to a total destruction of the human spirit and to a leveling of mankind into death.”), the West does not offer an attractive alternative. The West’s identifying qualities are cowardice and individual self-sufficiency. We defend human rights, but not human obligations; we champion freedom of the press, but fail to appreciate the responsibility that journalists carry for the world and for history. We patronize a suffering world, but offer only “mass living habits, introduced by the revolting invasion of publicity, by TV stupor and by intolerable music.” We claim freedom of religion, but practice freedom from religion. These atrocious qualities have produced an America that is wrapped up in humanism and materialism and avoids any inclination of responsibility toward God and society. The decline of courage, the decadence of art, and the lack of statesmen are three symptoms Solzhenitsyn identifies as fatal to America.

Ouch! Not much has changed since 1978. People, we have work to do.

Thoughts Before Law School . . . .

The Old Court said: The Law exists, the Constitution exists. They exist by the sanction of Nature and Society. They are not Justice, for Justice is a spirit never seen, but only through them can Justice speak. Untune them and all is jangle. The New Court said: The Law exists. The Constitution exists. But they exist only by the decision of man and what man can make he can unmake. As for Justice, that is the name for the needs of man. Justice is man’s Goddess but is also his slave.
~Robert Penn Warren

8/23/08

. . . for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.
G.K. Chesterton

[Four Years]

08/07/08

May the favor of the Lord our God rest upon us; establish the work of our hands for us—yes, establish the work of our hands.
Psalm 90:17

Family

"...the joy of the children was in his voice..."

Catherine Marshall, Christy

One thing God has spoken, two things I have heard: that you, O God, are strong and that you, O LORD, are loving.

Psalm 62:11